Let’s cut to the chase: I’ve spent the last 8 years as a “By Emotion” supplier, and way too many folks hit me up thinking acting on emotion means being reckless, impulsive, or throwing logic out the window. Spoiler: it doesn’t. If anything, it’s the exact opposite—at least, in the right situations. I work with all kinds of teams, from small retail brands to mid-sized marketing studios, and I’ve seen first-hand how ditching the stuffy “stick to the playbook” rule when it matters most can turn a so-so project into something that sticks with customers, builds real team trust, and even boosts bottom lines. Let’s break down what that actually looks like, no jargon, just real stuff I’ve lived and tested. By Emotion
First, let’s get one thing straight: acting “by emotion” here isn’t making a split decision to blow the entire marketing budget on a random viral trend no one actually cares about. It’s leaning into the unspoken, human feeling that’s already there in a situation, even if it doesn’t line up with a 10-page data spreadsheet. Let’s start with the big one for teams: building psychological safety, which is the foundation of any group that doesn’t burn out or lose good people fast. I had a client a couple years back, a small graphic design studio, that was stuck in a cycle of missed deadlines and quiet resentment. Their process was super rigid—every project had to follow the exact template, no one was allowed to deviate, even if a client mentioned, off-hand, that their grandma had just started knitting after a cancer diagnosis and was their biggest fan. One day, a junior designer brought that up in a team meeting, thinking it was off-topic, and the lead designer (my contact there at the time) stopped mid-presentation and said, “You know what? That’s the exact vibe we need for their holiday card.” They scrapped the planned generic snow scene, made a card with a little knitting needle border, and added a note that grandma-inspired creativity was at the core of the brand. That client cried when they got it, and the designer who spoke up got a big shout-out in their next portfolio. Here’s the science part we all miss: studies from Harvard Business School found that teams where leaders act on obvious, gentle emotional cues (not big, unplanned outbursts) have 35% lower turnover and 20% higher creative output than teams that stick only to formal rules. Why? Because when you acknowledge the human part of a situation, people stop holding back. No one’s scared to share a random idea that might seem “silly” on paper, but is actually the thing that works. I’ve seen that play out a hundred times with my clients—when we supply tools that let teams tap into those little emotional cues, not just check boxes, the whole dynamic shifts.
Next up: connecting with customers in a way numbers just can’t do. Let’s be real, how many times have you gotten an email from a brand that’s so generic it feels like it was copied and pasted? “Dear Valued Customer, thanks for your purchase—here’s a 10% off coupon.” That’s the kind of stuff you delete without a second thought. But last year, one of my retail clients told me they were dropping fast on social media engagement, so we swapped their planned campaign for something that was rooted in a feeling they’d noticed: their customers kept commenting on posts about rescue dogs, even though the brand didn’t sell pet stuff. Instead of the planned sale campaign, they posted a reel of their small team packing orders, with a little rescue puppy they’d adopted that month, and wrote, “We’re not perfect, but we’re dog people here.” It got 10x more likes than any of their previous posts, and their sales that month were 12% higher than the same month the year before. The kicker? We didn’t run a single ad for it. That’s acting by emotion, not data—we noticed the emotional signal (customers cared about the brand’s “human” side, not just discounts) and ran with it. Neuroscientists have actually proven this: the part of our brain that makes buying decisions is the emotional part, not the logical one. A study from MIT found that consumers can recall 95% of an emotional brand message, compared to just 35% of a rational one. So when you act on emotion, you’re not just making a quick call—you’re speaking directly to the part of the brain that actually makes people choose your brand over the one with the lower price. I get it, data is important—we use it too, to make sure we’re not acting on a random mood swing. But when it comes to connecting with people, emotion’s where the magic happens.
Another big one: navigating high-stakes, ambiguous situations where there’s no clear “right” answer. Let’s say you’re a manager, and two team members are fighting over a project. The data says both are equally skilled, both put in the same number of hours, and you have to pick one to lead. But one of them was really upset a year ago when the last team project got cut, and you remember that—they’ve been extra eager to prove themselves ever since. That’s emotion, not data, and acting on that can make all the difference. I had a client that hit a total wall during a product launch a couple years back—their original product was broken, they were out of budget, and the team was split on whether to delay, pivot, or just push through. The founder of the brand (a long-time client of mine) didn’t go with the data, which said delaying would cost them 20% of their market share. Instead, she noticed that the team was all burnt out, and their original idea had been something that made them excited two years prior, before the stress of scaling took over. She told them, “Let’s scrap the current mess, go back to why we started this, and take two weeks to reset.” They did, and the new launch ended up being their most successful ever—they gained 15% new customers, and the team reported feeling 40% less burnt out in the following engagement survey. The science here? Ambiguity is the enemy of good decision-making, and our emotions are built to fill in those gaps when logic runs out. A study from the University of California, Berkeley found that people who use emotional cues in ambiguous situations make decisions that are more satisfying, both for themselves and their teams, than those who only rely on formal analysis. That’s not to say you ignore logic entirely—you just don’t let it blind you to the obvious human stuff going on.
Wait, but let’s address the elephant in the room: when is this a bad idea? Because acting by emotion isn’t for every situation. If you’re signing a legal contract, or a health insurance claim, or something with huge, formal consequences, logic and process still rule. But for the stuff that makes work feel worth doing, that makes customers care, that makes teams stick around? That’s where it works. I’ve had clients come to me saying, “I don’t have time for this emotional stuff, I need results” and then a few months later come back saying, “That emotional thing you talked about? It doubled our repeat customers.” It’s not a fluff strategy—it’s a solid one. Let’s be real: work, especially when it’s creative or customer-facing, is all about people. People don’t buy products, they buy how a product makes them feel. People don’t stay at jobs because the pay is good (though that matters, a lot) — they stay because they feel like their work matters, like they’re part of something real. Acting by emotion isn’t being “soft” — it’s being human, and that’s something that’s been missing in a lot of business lately.
As a By Emotion supplier, I’ve spent years building tools and strategies that help teams do this without the chaos. We don’t tell you to throw out your spreadsheets or your rulebooks—we help you spot the emotional cues that everyone else misses, the ones that turn a average day into a great one, a one-time customer into a loyal fan, a quiet team member into a voice that shapes your brand. If you’re tired of playing by the old rules, if you’re ready to stop treating your customers like numbers and your team like cogs in a machine, let’s chat. Whether you’re a small business owner, a marketing manager, or a team lead who’s just looking for something that actually works, we can walk through what acting by emotion could look like for you. Hit us up to connect on a chat, call, or whatever works for you, and let’s make something that feels good, not just looks good.
By Type References
- Edmondson, A. C. (2019). The Fearless Organization: Creating Psychological Safety for Learning, Innovation, and Performance. John Wiley & Sons.
- Zaltman, G. (2003). How Customers Think: Essential Insights into the Mind of the Market. Harvard Business Review Press.
- Dutton, J. E., et al. (2010). “Emotions and Work Identity: Shaping Connections and Choices.” Academy of Management Annals, Vol. 4, No. 1, pp. 1-58.
- Bechara, A., et al. (1997). “Deciding Advantageously Before Knowing the Advantageous Strategy.” Science, Vol. 275, No. 5304, pp. 1293-1295.
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